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 clee321 It is always easier to edit than it is to create PeaNut 161,211 August 2004 Posts: 9,349 Layouts: 10 Loc: Land of Mold and Pollen
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Hello Peas! First, I want to thank you for all the support you have sown us over the past 6 months. It has been crazy and no one really knows what is "right" and well... here we are. Lynn misses you dearly and we often talk about you and think of things to tell/ask you.
With the 6 month mark here, it seemed like a good idea to write an update.This update was written by ScrappinSpidey so I am just the conduit.
Update from us:
Today the girl turns 14. It has been a roller coaster of a ride with her the last few weeks. Saturday was the 6 month mark and it has been a tough one. She is bringing her grades up slowly but they are coming up. Her band has been selected to play in Disneyland's main street parade this spring and she is super excited about that. We are still healing so we have good days and bad days still. We are still struggling to find that “normal" spot
The boy was accepted into ASU for the fall semester. I am so proud of him. He finishes his airplane mechanics course this summer and then into his engineering degree in the fall. He will be staying at the dorms as his sister and I are moving to CA to be with my MIL for the next few years. It will be hard for me to leave him here but he is so ready to get out on his own and do this. He is excited about college and so am I. I managed to get him through highschool without any pregnancies, marriages, drinking etc. One down, one to go
I have a part time job at a local hospital. I work two nights a week and can pick up more if I need them. It feels weird being at work but a welcome escape from the rest of the stuff we are dealing with. When it rains it pours and the last 6 months have been no exception. We had a major flooding issue in the house. I now have holes in my ceiling, walls and closets where they fixed the plumbing and dried it out. Because I am not using my home owners insurance, it has been an interesting experience. The company who was recommended to replace the drywall is basically telling me to advertise on craigslist because they have to charge me way to much to get it fixed. So I still have holes everywhere. My 6 month old kitchen stove died yesterday. Waiting for sears to come out tomorrow and check it out, hopefully it will be under warranty. We have had some entertaining moments between my daughter and I dealing with everything. luckily we have been in counseling a while so we have resources to turn to.
A small plug for my sister here. She has been amazing She came out in December and saved Christmas for us. Helped me with a lot of projects and an Ikea run I would be very lost without her. She has been super amazing in dropping everything, flying out here from the east coast when I sound overwhelmed and helps get us back on track. The best part is she doesn't ask me. She just shows up.
We have made some major decisions regarding moving and housing. Yet at the same time we can't seem to get simple household chores done, groceries purchased, dinners made etc. Most days its amusing to realize that we really aren't functioning like we claim. 6 months has been really hard on me emotionally. Everyone says its normal but I hate it since I'm not that emotional of a person. Crying is not my thing yet yesterday I found myself crying in public over stupid things. *sigh* Nothing I can do about it but keep kleenex handy.
I've lost more friends, some relationships have gotten even stronger. I found out that apparently when your husband dies, you turn from a frumpy, overweight, out of shape person into a goddess with husband stealing capabilities overnight. Its highly entertaining if it weren't so sad. For those who wonder how to deal with widows, please understand we don't want your husbands. We want ours back. Yours cannot and does not compare to the one we lost and we don't have the energy for your husband, must less the energy to steal them If you truly think that a widow is going to steal your husband, you need to take a long look at your own self. /rant
I miss the peas something fierce. I have so many things I could use your advise on. I pop in and read daily still but its so difficult not to reply or start my own threads. Facebook is even worse. We are managing for now. We have pockets of sunshine and I look forward to those the most. I look forward to the day I can have both the peas and my facebook back but for now there still isn't any for sure date on that issue.
That's it from us for now.
Lynn/BW
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 PEArfect AncestralPea PeaNut 452,048 January 2010 Posts: 4,471 Layouts: 0 Loc: Indiana
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Thanks for sharing the update. It sounds like she has a great support system between family, friends, and her counseling. Hopefully all of her house issues and insurance coverage will work out in her favor. |
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 *~*amanda*~* ... PeaNut 393,905 October 2008 Posts: 6,647 Layouts: 0 Loc: Illinois
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It sounds like the best update we can hope for!
Im glad to hear that she is working through some of her pain, as are her children.
Are you guys sisters? I missed the connection somewhere! |
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 Rhondito MississiPEA PeaNut 40,147 June 2002 Posts: 23,615 Layouts: 2 Loc: Flowood, Mississippi
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I didn't know you were Lynn's sister! Reading what she said about you put a big lump in my throat. What an incredible, unselfish, giving, and loving sister you are. She is blessed to have you.
Lynn, God bless you and your children. I pray things will get easier for you and know that we send nothing but good thoughts your way. |
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 ScrapnGranny PeaFixture PeaNut 11,212 February 2001 Posts: 3,140 Layouts: 94
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Thanks for keeping us posted. I think of Lynne often. |
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 clee321 It is always easier to edit than it is to create PeaNut 161,211 August 2004 Posts: 9,349 Layouts: 10 Loc: Land of Mold and Pollen
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Are you guys sisters? I missed the connection somewhere!
Yes, we are. She is the eldest but shortest sister *Grin*
I almost deleted that paragraph because it felt weird, but I did feel some pride in it, so I left it.
It has been hard to know "what is right" or "what is wrong" to do and I fear being the person who causes her major pain out of ignorance. BUT the alternative is NOT being there for her and I can't do that.
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 TheBiscuitScraps Bubbie is my most prized title. PeaNut 99,833 August 2003 Posts: 5,226 Layouts: 2 Loc: Raleigh, North Carolina
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Just keep putting one foot in front of the other...and when you stumble, ask your self, "What would the peas do?" That should give you a chuckle...because you know the answers will be across the board, around the world, over the sea and over rolling plains and contradictory, for the most part.
Before you know it, you will be back and not being here will just be a blurr, because you know it's like riding a bike...just jump back on and push the pedals. |
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 GiaRenee BucketHead PeaNut 508,737 May 2011 Posts: 749 Layouts: 0
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 AKathy Peaing From Podunk PeaNut 45,443 August 2002 Posts: 14,568 Layouts: 93 Loc: North Dakota
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Thank you for the update! I think of Lynn often and wonder how she's doing. I walked a similar path and I know how hard it is.
And this:
I've lost more friends, some relationships have gotten even stronger. I found out that apparently when your husband dies, you turn from a frumpy, overweight, out of shape person into a goddess with husband stealing capabilities overnight. Its highly entertaining if it weren't so sad. For those who wonder how to deal with widows, please understand we don't want your husbands. We want ours back. Yours cannot and does not compare to the one we lost and we don't have the energy for your husband, must less the energy to steal them If you truly think that a widow is going to steal your husband, you need to take a long look at your own self. /rant
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 valincal Comfortably numb. PeaNut 227,939 October 2005 Posts: 13,599 Layouts: 5 Loc: Southern Alberta
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 Shevy Harley Riding Pea PeaNut 10,051 January 2001 Posts: 7,263 Layouts: 9 Loc: 10,000 Lakes and Double Cities!
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I've been praying for Peace. I'm thankful that you can update us about Lynn and her family. And it's a good thing that she hsa such a great sister. I hope 2013 finds more up days than down. |
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 Cake Diva Cake-a-licous! PeaNut 90,802 June 2003 Posts: 9,860 Layouts: 35 Loc: Fergus, Ontario
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THank you for posting the update - it was nice to hear how she is doing.
Hugs Spidey! |
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 Pridemom Pride of the Peas PeaNut 25,575 December 2001 Posts: 19,082 Layouts: 45 Loc: Stuck in the Middle With You
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Lynn,
Thanks for the update. I wish you healing and to find peace.
Good luck with your move. |
Proud Wife and Mom to four big goons!
I cannot be old enough to have three teens and a tween.
God, who foresaw your tribulation, has specially formed you to
go through it, not without pain but without stain.
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 lovetodigi Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 257,022 April 2006 Posts: 7,672 Layouts: 5 Loc: Metro Atlanta
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Thank you for the update. I have often wondered how Lynn was doing, and I probably would have peamailed you if I had realized that you were her sister. I don't know how I missed knowing that. It sounds like you have been a true blessing for Lynn and her children. I know she appreciates having you as a sister.
Sending you a (((HUG))) Lynn. Healing takes time and it is not and easy journey, but each day brings you closer. Don't ever doubt your strength, you will make it through this. Take care of yourself and please keep us updated. |
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 WingNut Best Cat Evahhh! PeaNut 18,741 July 2001 Posts: 13,092 Layouts: 200 Loc: Maryland
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Thank you so much for this update. She's always on my mind. I almost posted a general "thinking of you" post last week but wasn't sure I should.
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 can_i_pea_2? We are the Boys of Old Florida PeaNut 190,429 February 2005 Posts: 10,616 Layouts: 5 Loc: Down Where the Old Gator Plays!
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I missed that you were sisters, too! But she is so lucky to have you. Sounds like things are as good as can be expected. We do miss her, and I think about often, as well. I wish her lots of good luck and happiness in California. |
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 tamhugh Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 12,875 March 2001 Posts: 7,889 Layouts: 11
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I also never made the family connection there.
Thank you for updating us. I am glad there have been little moments of brightness for them. I hope they are all being kind to themselves, because 6 months is really not much time. Prayers and good thoughts for their continued healing. | |
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 Shih Tzu Mommy Million dollar camera, 10 dollar lock! PeaNut 224,352 September 2005 Posts: 23,525 Layouts: 0 Loc: Right here
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Thanks for sharing the update. Your sister is in my thoughts frequently! |
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 Restless Spirit Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 218,419 August 2005 Posts: 5,857 Layouts: 4
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Clee -
Thanks you for posting Lynn's update. I appreciate her sharing how she and her family is doing in this difficult time.
Lynn -
May you find peace and calm in the months ahead. My very best to you and your family.
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 scoobers Why, YES!, I am a princess. PeaNut 417,049 March 2009 Posts: 12,860 Layouts: 0
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I was just thinking about Spidey last week! SO glad to hear and update.
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Thanks for the update. |
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 Mimima Stay Gold, Ponyboy PeaNut 41,779 July 2002 Posts: 32,577 Layouts: 58 Loc: The Left Coast
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Clee, thank you for posting the update and for being there for Lynn.
Lynn, continued prayers from me. So good to hear your update. I laughed about the widow/husband-stealer thing. It's sadly true that some people react like that, I'm so sorry. |
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 MrsPibb Huh? PeaNut 134,479 March 2004 Posts: 6,691 Layouts: 0 Loc: Phoenix
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Thanks for the update.
And since Lynn will be reading:
Hi Lynn!
I think about you often and wonder how you are doing. |
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 MellyW Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 181,911 December 2004 Posts: 5,385 Layouts: 0 Loc: LaLaLand
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Thank you for the update. Many of us keep Lynn & her kids in our thoughts.
Clee- Thanks for keeping that paragraph about you in the post. What a wonderful Sister you are, & it eases *my* mind to know Lynn has you.
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 *Fresca* StuckOnPeas PeaNut 204,709 May 2005 Posts: 2,717 Layouts: 0 Loc: Northern Illinois
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We are managing for now. We have pockets of sunshine and I look forward to those the most.
Love this, thanks for the update! |
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 peamac Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 340,335 October 2007 Posts: 5,558 Layouts: 1 Loc: Colorado
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It has been hard to know "what is right" or "what is wrong" to do and I fear being the person who causes her major pain out of ignorance. BUT the alternative is NOT being there for her and I can't do that.
THere is no magic thing that is right or wrong- just being there and listening and hugging. Keep on being the great sister that you have been to her.
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 megmc AncestralPea PeaNut 497,090 January 2011 Posts: 4,904 Layouts: 0
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 MagentaPea PeaAddict PeaNut 244,947 January 2006 Posts: 1,389 Layouts: 0 Loc: In the Mitten
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Another "thank you" for posting this update. I was thinking about her the other day and hoping the best for the family.
Lynn, I am amazed at the strength that you have shown in the past 6 months. Prayers for continued healing.
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 mikklynn PeaAddict PeaNut 294,285 January 2007 Posts: 1,507 Layouts: 1 Loc: Minnesota
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Oh! Thank you so much for the update. I think of you often, SS. Sending you nothing but love as you heal.
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 BuckeyeSandy Old Dogs are Best! PeaNut 92,987 June 2003 Posts: 22,364 Layouts: 364 Loc: With my dogs
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I've lost more friends, some relationships have gotten even stronger. I found out that apparently when your husband dies, you turn from a frumpy, overweight, out of shape person into a goddess with husband stealing capabilities overnight. Its highly entertaining if it weren't so sad. For those who wonder how to deal with widows, please understand we don't want your husbands. We want ours back. Yours cannot and does not compare to the one we lost and we don't have the energy for your husband, must less the energy to steal them If you truly think that a widow is going to steal your husband, you need to take a long look at your own self. /rant
I had forgotten that when I lost Mark... There were his friends, my friends, his from work and mine from work. Most of his friends, were already or became mine too. It was only the "his work friends" that disappeared. Maybe the difference between military and civilian LEO?
The first year is the worse, and there is no way through it but through it. My heart breaks reading your posting through your sister. Hug her close, she's a good sister and a great friend.
Do allow yourself to cry as you need to.
Heads-up: Taxes will break your heart, but get them done. I filled an extension because Mark died in February and I had no energy to do them, not even in August when I finally HAD TO DO THEM.
The following year (with nearly two months of his pay to file a return for) was equally bad.
Prayers that things will move forward and get better. ((hugs))
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I don't understand why she can't post any longer. This wasn't a criminal case. It would be so good for her to have the support and the break the peas offer. I wish you well SS. Maybe you could have an alias.  | |
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 KristinL16 Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 142,870 April 2004 Posts: 12,261 Layouts: 102 Loc: MN
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Thanks for the update. I had no idea you were sisters! I hope scrappinspidey can post again soon! |
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 AngieandSnoopy Michel's Mom ~ Sugar Plum's Mummie PeaNut 52,307 October 2002 Posts: 5,293 Layouts: 80 Loc: Land of Enchantment - Louisiana girl in a Southwest world.
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Thanks SO much for the update. It is weird, I was just thinking of Lynn yesterday and wondering how she was doing. I've been there myself but unfortunately, I didn't have close family that was there for me. I'm glad she has you. |
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 lucyg819 pearl-clutching nitpicker PeaNut 201,774 April 2005 Posts: 14,375 Layouts: 15 Loc: gone to chemo with BethAnne
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THANK YOU for the update. I've been wondering how Lynn and family were doing. I'm glad you've been such a great support to her.
To Lynn: I think about you a lot, and I know you're not trying to steal anyone's husband. I very much hope life looks up for you in the next six months and beyond. |
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 ScrapWench* Seems a pity to miss such a good pudding. PeaNut 247,139 February 2006 Posts: 18,702 Layouts: 0 Loc: Spokane, WA
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I am sorry for her loss, especially for her children. How heartbreaking.
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 **Angie** Pea Who Should Be Cleaning! PeaNut 145,006 May 2004 Posts: 10,839 Layouts: 91 Loc: at home in front of the computer
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I'm so glad you posted Lynn's update. If she ever needs an ear, I'm sure all of us on this thread would be willing to quietly listen *okay, read*....
((((hugs)))) to all of you!
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 MetalDancer PeaAddict PeaNut 328,901 July 2007 Posts: 1,820 Layouts: 1 Loc: I like calling North Carolina home!
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My best to Spidey and her Spiderlings.
I echo that - thank you for updating us all. I've been thinking about her and wondered how she was doing.
Please let her know we're thinking of her. |
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 gmcwife1 SamFan PeaNut 33,625 March 2002 Posts: 7,976 Layouts: 0 Loc: Washington State
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Thank you for the update!
We miss you Lynn and think of you often.
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 Quokka PeaFixture PeaNut 87,007 May 2003 Posts: 3,235 Layouts: 18 Loc: QLD, Australia
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Thanks for the update, just keep trucking.
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 hopncrop Jeepers PEApers PeaNut 49,938 September 2002 Posts: 2,213 Layouts: 1 Loc: Indiana
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It was so nice to read the update. Thank you! I, too, think of Lynn often and hope you, Lynn,
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 simplekelly Loving Life PeaNut 142,378 April 2004 Posts: 16,340 Layouts: 6 Loc: Why do you want to know?
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The boy was accepted into ASU for the fall semester. I am so proud of him. He finishes his airplane mechanics course this summer and then into his engineering degree in the fall. He will be staying at the dorms
*everytime* I read this, I get chills! That is so awesome. I know that you and your husband were really struggling with him and his attitude and to hear how is is growing up and maturing is very cool. The reason for the quick grow-up sucks something fierce. I'm so happy that he has risen to the experience.
Many hugs to you and your kids. I think of you often and am glad that things are coming along for you and your daughter and that her grades are slowly starting to improve. That's really wonderful.
and when you stumble, ask your self, "What would the peas do?" That should give you a chuckle..
and as to this...haha...just remember that the peas would give you an answer so that you'd just simply KNOW that there is no one RIGHT answer...just a right answer for YOU!
Can't you go to a library and make an "alternate ID"? 
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 Donna in GA Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 60,695 January 2003 Posts: 8,060 Layouts: 2
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Thank you so much for the update! I have been thinking of them especially over the holidays.
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 *Delphinium Twinkle* I'm just a pea:) PeaNut 163,613 August 2004 Posts: 68,288 Layouts: 236 Loc: *Sunny Southern California*
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I'm so glad you posted an update. I think of your sister often.
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 back to *pea*ality PeaFixture PeaNut 471,633 June 2010 Posts: 3,707 Layouts: 0
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 *Leanne* As a matter of fact, I am a Tudor princess! PeaNut 34,268 March 2002 Posts: 12,884 Layouts: 0 Loc: Calgary, Alberta
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 I-95 It's all just nonsense anyway! PeaNut 97,456 July 2003 Posts: 19,547 Layouts: 0 Loc: California, NY & Orlando
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Thank you so much for the update. Count me as another one who didn't realize y'all were sisters! What a nice surprise.
Lynn, I think of you often, and always hope things are improving for you and the kids. Nice to hear your son is going off to college and is excited about that. I think the move will be good for you and your DD.
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 Nantini Ancient Ancestor of Pea PeaNut 274,935 August 2006 Posts: 5,099 Layouts: 8
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I've been thinking about her since her last post. I'm so glad things seem to be getting somewhat better. Although she probably won't agree, she seems to be a very strong person in dealing with all of this.
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