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PeaNut 121,868
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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:28:01 PM
Yesterday, we lost the best little shar-pei in the world. We know we made the right decision for her, but damn, we miss her so much.

I know it will get easier, but right now I just want Abby back...before cancer got to her.


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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:30:45 PM
I'm sorry. It hurts like hell doesn't it? DH and I were just talking tonight about when we lost our beloved cat. It's been about 4 or 5 years and it's still hard to think about her without getting sad.

Be kind to yourself and if helps, maybe scrapbook a page or jot down some fun memories of your pooch. <HUGS>


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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:32:16 PM
I am so sorry!

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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:33:07 PM
So sorry

Sure was a cutie, just remember the good times and how lucky you were to have her in your life and how her life was made so much better by having you in it also.

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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:43:47 PM
It's a hard loss, I'm so sorry. Huge hugs

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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:44:22 PM
I'm so sorry

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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:45:35 PM
So sorry

They really wedge themselves right in your heart, don't they?


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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:47:12 PM
I am so sorry.

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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:48:03 PM
I'm so sorry! I never realized how much it hurt to lose a pet until we lost one! It still hurts but it will get easier.Just keep the memories in your heart!


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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:50:33 PM
{{{hugs}}} to you and your family! It's been 5 & 6 years since we lost our fur babies. Even after all that time, I still expect them to be here. So, in some ways it's like we still have them - at least in our hearts. You will, too.


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Posted: 10/5/2013 11:53:15 PM
I'm so sorry, we just lost our beloved pet a few days ago. We were heartbroken.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 12:00:27 AM
I'm so sorry. Losing a beloved pet is devastating. (((HUGS)))


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Posted: 10/6/2013 12:51:26 AM
I am so sorry. Our dog is fighting cancer too, and we aren't sure he's going to beat this either.

I hate that disease.

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February 2003
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Posted: 10/6/2013 12:59:14 AM
I'm so sorry

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June 2004
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Posted: 10/6/2013 1:01:45 AM
I am so sorry for your loss.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 1:10:02 AM
I'm am so sorry for the loss of such a dear member to your family. I think it's important to play the sweet memories of Abby over in your mind. You did make the right decision for her, even though it breaks your heart.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 1:14:32 AM

I'm sorry for your loss.



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Posted: 10/6/2013 1:16:57 AM
What a sweetie. I'm so sorry. Looks like he was well loved.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 1:47:58 AM
I'm so sorry. It's one of the most difficult things to go through.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 2:40:28 AM
I'm so sorry

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Posted: 10/6/2013 3:36:33 AM
What a precious baby. I have been in your shoes, I know how bad it hurts. {{{Hugs}}}

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Posted: 10/6/2013 3:54:51 AM
I'm so sorry. Losing a pet is always hard, but in time the great memories will really help.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 4:10:27 AM
I'm sorry.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 4:21:54 AM
I'm very sorry for your loss.



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Posted: 10/6/2013 4:55:55 AM
Sorry for your loss.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 5:39:57 AM
I know how you feel. Know you made the right decision.

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July 2004
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Posted: 10/6/2013 5:41:42 AM
What a precious face. I'm so sorry.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 6:09:53 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. She had such a sweet face. Hugs...


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Posted: 10/6/2013 7:19:29 AM
I'm so sorry.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 7:21:55 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Abby was so lucky to have such a loving and caring family to spend her life with.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 7:23:52 AM
I'm sorry. But you were a good doggie mom to let her go, no matter how painful it was for you.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 7:34:06 AM
Aww, she's sweet. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 9:46:00 AM
Such a sweet face! I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 9:50:44 AM
I am so, SO sorry and completely understand as we just went through this recently.

Hugs and prayers for you!

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Posted: 10/6/2013 9:57:12 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so hard to say good bye even when it is right. Cancer sucks. In pets too.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:00:10 AM
Sometimes, doing the right thing for our pets is doing the hardest thing for us--it's never easy. I'm sorry for your loss--hold your memories tight and let them comfort you in the days to come.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:02:17 AM
It is not easy losing a piece of your heart. Hugs for you.



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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:11:23 AM
I'm sorry you lost your shar pei.
After losing a much loved dog, I can relate. It's very painful.

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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:35:44 AM
My heart is breaking looking at her sweet face. I'm very sorry.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:46:51 AM
I am so sorry.

We had to put our beagle down several weeks ago and it has just broken my heart. I couldn't even post about it on Facebook or tell our friends and family.

A friend came over the other day and asked where she was and I finally had to tell her. It was just so hard to say out loud that she was gone.

She is buried in our back yard and I bought a custom made stone to mark her grave (from Etsy. It's really beautiful if you're interested in something like that, let me know and I can get you the sellers info).

I finally hung up some pictures of her in our photo wall this week and it's helped a lot. (One is 8x8 of her and the kids back when the kids were younger and one 4x6 of her and I taken recently. It's a close up of her beautiful face and her soft, velvety ears).

I didn't want to have them there at first because it hurt too much, but today, it helps. I miss her so, so much. She's been my constant sidekick for almost 14 years.

Sending you hugs!



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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:48:01 AM
I am sorry.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:50:28 AM
I am so sorry. There is nothing like the lose of fur-baby.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 4:50:38 PM
Thank you for all your hugs and thoughts. I appreciate every single one of them. Abby definitely had a great life with us. She was about 8 months old when we rescued her, and she was loved and spoiled everyday for the 9 years we had her.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 6:28:34 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss


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Posted: 10/6/2013 6:31:04 PM
I'm so very sorry for your loss! It's so hard, without a doubt. It definitely gets easier, but it sure hurts for a long time.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 6:34:52 PM
I'm so sorry you've lossed such a sweet girl. Such heartbreak that is.

{{{{ hugs }}}}


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Posted: 10/6/2013 6:34:52 PM
I'm so sorry you lost your beloved pet. It is so hard.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 6:37:32 PM
So very sorry. I know first hand how hard it is to let go.

This is the 3rd fur baby I have heard about this week passing due to cancer. What is going on


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Posted: 10/6/2013 7:19:54 PM
I can't even think about losing one of my babies. I am so sorry you are in such pain. *hugs* I am sotting here crying right now.


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Posted: 10/6/2013 10:21:14 PM
just reading your post brings tears to my eyes. I faced the same situation nearly a month ago. So sorry...
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