I just need to be sad somewhere...

Two Peas is Closing
Click here to visit our final product sale. Click here to visit our FAQ page regarding the closing of Two Peas.

Posted 10/4/2012 by raindancer in NSBR Board
1 2 3 >
 

raindancer
Capt. Sparrow's Pirate Wench

PeaNut 217,886
August 2005
Posts: 16,684
Layouts: 44

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:13:16 AM
today our sweet girl has let us know it is time. Our Hallie girl is 16 and has given us so much love and kindness, but she has stopped eating and is not responding to loves or her favorite bacon treats. My heart is so sad.

To top it off, my son was sick all night, so I'm beyond exhausted, which makes knowing we have to take her in to the vet today seem all the more overwhelming. And I cannot take time off from school, so I hope she can hang on until this afternoon, my dh is making the decision about when with the vet.

I hate these days. Even though I know its best, and I know she is done. I'm just so sad.

nicolequinn
Sick of Snow

PeaNut 41,352
June 2002
Posts: 6,061
Layouts: 0
Loc: Canada

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:15:46 AM
I'm so, so sorry.
It's so hard to lose you best friend.
Thinking of you.

*Jenny*
It's like the Twilight Zone

PeaNut 208,973
June 2005
Posts: 16,315
Layouts: 1
Loc: Pick up the phone. I'm always home. Call me anytime

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:16:56 AM
I'm so sorry.

Gail OH
Ancient Ancestor of Pea

PeaNut 108,385
September 2003
Posts: 7,430
Layouts: 0
Loc: Ohio

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:17:17 AM
sorry this is happening...hugs to you...

SillyRabbit
PeaFixture

PeaNut 104,457
September 2003
Posts: 3,094
Layouts: 12
Loc: Where The Grass Is Blue

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:19:04 AM
I'm sorry.

FlaMom
Thread Killer Extraordinaire

PeaNut 29,166
February 2002
Posts: 6,400
Layouts: 12
Loc: BFE

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:19:44 AM
I'm so sorry.

jgpea
StuckOnPeas

PeaNut 378,405
June 2008
Posts: 2,152
Layouts: 9

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:23:03 AM


better place, no pain...they run & jump & play...and wait by the bridge for you...
Uploaded with iPhone client

MrsPibb
Huh?

PeaNut 134,479
March 2004
Posts: 6,814
Layouts: 0
Loc: Phoenix

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:23:45 AM
I'm sorry.
Uploaded with iPhone client

Jillsie Pea
We Will Never Forget

PeaNut 226,757
October 2005
Posts: 911
Layouts: 0
Loc: SouthPark

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:24:48 AM
{{{HUGS}}} I'm sorry.

Woobster
The Banana Under the Couch Pea

PeaNut 295,941
February 2007
Posts: 8,089
Layouts: 0
Loc: Somewhere over the rainbow...

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:26:18 AM
My heart just breaks for you. I'm so sorry...

LolaLayout
StuckOnPeas

PeaNut 544,018
February 2012
Posts: 2,407
Layouts: 1

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:26:24 AM
I'm so very sorry.

Hugs and gentle kind thoughts for you and your family.

JustTami
PeaFixture

PeaNut 192,472
February 2005
Posts: 3,670
Layouts: 0
Loc: By the pool

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:28:16 AM
I'm so sorry.

Cake Diva
Cake-a-licous!

PeaNut 90,802
June 2003
Posts: 10,665
Layouts: 35
Loc: Fergus, Ontario

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:28:23 AM
I'm so sorry...saying goodbye to a beloved pet is so hard.

Hugs!

stampfox
PeaAddict

PeaNut 344,996
October 2007
Posts: 1,262
Layouts: 2
Loc: Deep East Texas

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:29:57 AM
I know how your heart feels as I have had to do this twice. It is so sad, so many hugs for you and your family.
Twyla

stampfox
PeaAddict

PeaNut 344,996
October 2007
Posts: 1,262
Layouts: 2
Loc: Deep East Texas

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:29:57 AM
I know how your heart feels as I have had to do this twice. It is so sad, so many hugs for you and your family.
Twyla

stampfox
PeaAddict

PeaNut 344,996
October 2007
Posts: 1,262
Layouts: 2
Loc: Deep East Texas

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:29:57 AM
I know how your heart feels as I have had to do this twice. It is so sad, so many hugs for you and your family.
Twyla

Free~Bird
'Cause I'm as free as a bird now

PeaNut 104,551
September 2003
Posts: 11,788
Layouts: 3
Loc: Missouri

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:39:03 AM

dynardr
Ancient Ancestor of Pea

PeaNut 367,106
March 2008
Posts: 5,101
Layouts: 0
Loc: between hell and amazing grace

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:41:36 AM
{hugs} I'm so sorry.

Creativegirl
PeaFixture

PeaNut 180,283
December 2004
Posts: 3,159
Layouts: 18
Loc: California

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:43:36 AM
It sounds like Hallie has had a good, long life with a loving family. Hoping for peace for your family as she moves on to a new and better place.

camanddanismom
Manic Mom of 2

PeaNut 274,243
August 2006
Posts: 11,866
Layouts: 473
Loc: Northeast

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:44:26 AM
I am so very sorry! It is a very difficult thing to do. My heart breaks for you and your family. At least you know that it is what is best for your friend of so many years.
Uploaded with iPhone client

KikiNichole

PeaNut 69,597
February 2003
Posts: 27,801
Layouts: 2
Loc: Follow the Yellow Brick Road

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:44:49 AM
I'm sorry, Heidi. {{{Hugs}}}

MellyW
Ancient Ancestor of Pea

PeaNut 181,911
December 2004
Posts: 5,498
Layouts: 0
Loc: LaLaLand

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:46:31 AM

I'm so sorry.

AKathy
Peaing From Podunk

PeaNut 45,443
August 2002
Posts: 16,554
Layouts: 93
Loc: North Dakota

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:52:40 AM
Awwwww, I'm so sorry

Burning Feather
I conceived but I can't see you

PeaNut 158,336
July 2004
Posts: 37,887
Layouts: 3
Loc: Ain't no black widow serial killer going to get between me and my man

Posted: 10/4/2012 10:55:00 AM
I'm sorry that you are having what is most surely an incredibly difficult day. It's never easy, but on the heels of exhaustion, I'm sure it's even harder.

PeasfulHeart
PeaAddict

PeaNut 228,402
October 2005
Posts: 1,941
Layouts: 0

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:00:32 AM
I'm so sorry. There are a whole lot of us here who know the pain of what you're going through. Hugs to you.

KelleeL
Eye pea ;)

PeaNut 29,130
February 2002
Posts: 6,111
Layouts: 67
Loc: 01826

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:00:34 AM
I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how difficult this is

WiiPii
Dirty little freaks!

PeaNut 374,795
May 2008
Posts: 7,614
Layouts: 0
Loc: too far away....

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:01:19 AM
I am so sorry

Snowsilver
Ancient Ancestor of Pea

PeaNut 17,900
July 2001
Posts: 7,836
Layouts: 6
Loc: Western NY

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:04:34 AM
Heidi, this is something I can say with positivity that I understand. I've been there/done that a number of times. I've lost a part of my heart each time.

Hugs to you.

scrappammie
PeaAddict

PeaNut 208,055
June 2005
Posts: 1,065
Layouts: 2
Loc: not stuck in tiny town anymore!

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:05:24 AM
So many hugs.

jenp1024
Ancient Ancestor of Pea

PeaNut 51,697
October 2002
Posts: 6,022
Layouts: 9
Loc: Connecticut

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:07:05 AM
My eyes are tearing up for you; that's got to be one of the toughest things to go through. Silly as this sounds, my dog truly is my best friend. The love and loyalty they give just fills up your heart with happiness.

I'm so,so sorry that you are going through this. I'm saying a prayer for you, your family, and for little Hallie.


Even though I know its best, and I know she is done.


You're right; it is for the best, but that doesn't make it one bit easier.

I'm glad you were able to give Hallie a happy, safe home for 16 years, and I'm sure that she gave you so much love and happiness.

EmilyDionne
PeaAddict

PeaNut 215,734
July 2005
Posts: 1,368
Layouts: 65
Loc: Okanagan, BC Canada

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:09:08 AM
{{{{{HUGS}}}}}
Just don't know what to say but hug you.

allipeas
PeaAddict

PeaNut 393,898
October 2008
Posts: 1,086
Layouts: 0
Loc: Morocco

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:11:16 AM
I am so sorry for you. (((hugs)))

jmd1970
PeaAddict

PeaNut 185,538
January 2005
Posts: 1,586
Layouts: 0
Loc: Illinois

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:37:44 AM
I am so sorry!
Uploaded with iPhone client

mirabelleswalker
My president has 6-pack abs.

PeaNut 175,521
November 2004
Posts: 11,718
Layouts: 14
Loc: Here today, gone to Morocco.

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:44:10 AM
I'm sorry. They fill our lives with such joy and leave us too soon.

Shih Tzu Mommy
Million dollar camera, 10 dollar lock!

PeaNut 224,352
September 2005
Posts: 24,004
Layouts: 0
Loc: Right here

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:50:23 AM
Oh that is an awful day in the life of a fur mom! Will your vet come to you so you don't have to transport the body back home for burial maybe?

HUGS TO YOU and your family!!

onlywork2scrap
PeaAddict

PeaNut 263,742
June 2006
Posts: 1,279
Layouts: 11
Loc: Over by the shredder, of course.

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:54:26 AM
It is so hard, and you are right, they do let us know when it is time. I always try to remember its the last good thing I can do for them. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Uploaded with iPhone client

MizIndependent
Is there another word for synonym?

PeaNut 256,623
April 2006
Posts: 15,004
Layouts: 2
Loc: Right where I'm s'posed to be.

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:55:39 AM
I'm so sorry.

((((((((HUGS))))))))

Mary Mary
NOT IN UTAH

PeaNut 140,474
April 2004
Posts: 35,044
Layouts: 13
Loc: Pemberley

Posted: 10/4/2012 11:56:56 AM
I'm so sorry, Heidi.

TaraAnderson
PeaNut

PeaNut 409,146
January 2009
Posts: 123
Layouts: 127
Loc: Phoenix

Posted: 10/4/2012 12:07:05 PM
awww, I'm so sorry. Our pets hold such a big part of our hearts. Sending you hugs today and peaceful thoughts. xo

katybee8
No matter where you go, there you are!

PeaNut 421,136
April 2009
Posts: 5,255
Layouts: 8
Loc: Chicago NW burbs

Posted: 10/4/2012 12:15:31 PM
Aw, it is sad. I am so sorry.

WingNut
Best Cat Evahhh!

PeaNut 18,741
July 2001
Posts: 14,109
Layouts: 200
Loc: Maryland

Posted: 10/4/2012 12:29:15 PM
{{{{ hugs }}}}

S_cR_aP_Booker
PeaAddict

PeaNut 400,592
November 2008
Posts: 1,586
Layouts: 0
Loc: Mississippi

Posted: 10/4/2012 12:52:11 PM
I am so very sorry.

SonjaW
PeaFixture

PeaNut 123,540
January 2004
Posts: 3,182
Layouts: 0
Loc: San Jose, California

Posted: 10/4/2012 12:53:23 PM
You are doing the right thing. I am so sorry for you.

raindancer
Capt. Sparrow's Pirate Wench

PeaNut 217,886
August 2005
Posts: 16,684
Layouts: 44

Posted: 10/4/2012 12:57:27 PM
Thank you for the outpouring of kind words and understanding. my dh has her there now, it could not wait. I'm sitting in the corner in a library trying to cry quietly.

We have such hard clay ground here that we cremate our pets. We cannot dig into the ground without a jack hammer. But we do need a tree, and I think a beautiful tree out my kitchen window will be nice. I am going to take my kids this weekend and do that.

This just sucks so much.

leftturnonly
Will trade mosquitoes for cookies.

PeaNut 416,788
March 2009
Posts: 22,257
Layouts: 0
Loc: Living in Kim's Perfect World, again.

Posted: 10/4/2012 1:01:03 PM
{{{{hugs}}}} I'm sorry. These days suck.



GiaRenee
PeaAddict

PeaNut 508,737
May 2011
Posts: 1,006
Layouts: 0

Posted: 10/4/2012 1:25:05 PM
oh no, I'm so sorry. ((HUGS))

MyMissyGirl
BucketHead

PeaNut 280,401
October 2006
Posts: 836
Layouts: 38
Loc: Northern California

Posted: 10/4/2012 1:51:39 PM
I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you as I know how hard it is. Big hugs to you!!!

Miss Ang
I'm a Toilet Paper Pea. Are you?

PeaNut 26,443
January 2002
Posts: 12,621
Layouts: 398
Loc: Illinois

Posted: 10/4/2012 1:54:07 PM
Oh no. I'm so sorry.

pea-squared
PeaAddict

PeaNut 226,973
October 2005
Posts: 1,720
Layouts: 2
Loc: Dillon, Texas :)

Posted: 10/4/2012 1:55:26 PM
I am so sorry! A year ago today, we lost our beloved little Yorkie, Rebel. He was everything to us and it still hurts.

My heart goes out to you! Take Care.

Knotlazy
PeaFixture

PeaNut 266,627
June 2006
Posts: 3,432
Layouts: 1

Posted: 10/4/2012 1:56:59 PM
I am so sorry! I have been right where you are, and it is SO hard.

But what a wonderful pet owner you are, doing exactly the most loving thing for your sweet pet.

I personally cling to that "waiting at the bridge" image...I love the thought that we will walk together again.

hugs and tears for you.
1 2 3 >
Show/Hide Icons . Show/Hide Signatures
Hide
{{ title }}
{{ icon }}
{{ body }}
{{ footer }}