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KikiNichole
HandSlapPea Pea
PeaNut 69,597
February 2003
Posts: 27,107
Layouts: 2
Loc: Follow the Yellow Brick Road
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I'm sorry, Lynn. I know how this community can come together and be so uplifting when you need it.
I hope whatever it is your pursuing works out for you and I hope to see you back soon.
Hang in there! | |
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Belia
PeaAddict
PeaNut 503,375
March 2011
Posts: 1,083
Layouts: 3
 | Posted: 11/19/2012 11:25:10 PM
(((((((((hugs)))))))))
This place is like the Hotel California... the craziness will still be here when you're ready to come back! | |
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busypea
boring + nerdy
PeaNut 52,817
October 2002
Posts: 25,516
Layouts: 145
Loc: Oregon
| Posted: 11/19/2012 11:25:24 PM
Aw, Lynn, I'm sorry to see you go, even though you have a perfectly good reason to do so.
If I may suggest... I think Two Peas filled a need for you to say whatever you were feeling through this process instead of always feeling you needed to be strong for others. While you may not be able to have the feedback and support of this crazy group o f peas for a while, I would encourage you to still take the time to write down whatever you would have written for the peas while you're away. Just do it for yourself. I know when I went through a life-changing tragedy, being able to express myself uncensored was super valuable to me. I would type it all up and then delete the file, but just the act of getting it out was very cathartic for me and help me put the ugly thoughts and feelings behind me.
You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts. I wish you all the best and look forward to your return. Take care of yourself. | |
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ScrapNatya
Is this an instrument of torture or communication?
PeaNut 1,583
October 1999
Posts: 7,596
Layouts: 405
Loc: Long Island
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Wishing you all the best! Sending you prayers and strength! | |
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leftturnonly
Will trade mosquitoes for cookies.
PeaNut 416,788
March 2009
Posts: 19,792
Layouts: 0
Loc: Living in Kim's Perfect World, again.
 | Posted: 11/19/2012 11:28:23 PM
Aw, I'm so sorry.
Hope this gets worked through soon and you'll be back quickly.
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***Kate***
PeaFixture
PeaNut 279,621
October 2006
Posts: 3,789
Layouts: 3
Loc: Warshington
 | Posted: 11/19/2012 11:33:05 PM
We will all be waiting for your update, whenever it comes. In the meantime, you and your son and daughter will be in countless prayers- for peace, good health, joy and closeness with one another! | |
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cycworker
On dry runs Santa drives the Isuzu
PeaNut 159,331
July 2004
Posts: 9,394
Layouts: 0
Loc: Vancouver Island, BC, Canada
 | Posted: 11/19/2012 11:34:38 PM
I'm so sorry Lynn. You're in my prayers. | |
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SueSume
You Wanna Peas of Me?
PeaNut 262,757
May 2006
Posts: 4,704
Layouts: 5
Loc: Big Bottom Valley
 | Posted: 11/19/2012 11:44:52 PM
(((Hugs)))
Lurk. We'll keep the crazy going until you get back. | |
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Mary Kay Lady
StuckOnPeas
PeaNut 367,913
March 2008
Posts: 2,573
Layouts: 0
Loc: The state of Confusion!
 | Posted: 11/19/2012 11:49:14 PM
I'm sorry to hear this, but I understand. Know that you'll be in my thoughts. Please come back as soon as you can. (((HUGS)))
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jodster70
To the right, To the right
PeaNut 51,257
October 2002
Posts: 5,619
Layouts: 28
Loc: Usually NSBR, an un"pea"dictable place :)
| Posted: 11/19/2012 11:49:39 PM
You will be missed.
As always, you will be in my thoughts and prayers. (((Hugs))) to you! | |
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merlot1024
PeaAddict
PeaNut 55,742
November 2002
Posts: 1,596
Layouts: 0
| Posted: 11/19/2012 11:52:41 PM
Wishing you all the best and hoping you are back to 2Ps soon. Take care. | |
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dynalady
My soul is fed with needle and thread
PeaNut 25,620
December 2001
Posts: 20,161
Layouts: 49
Loc: Sweet Home Chicago
 | Posted: 11/20/2012 12:00:16 AM
We'll be here waiting for you. Take care. | |
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IllinoisSue
BucketHead
PeaNut 425,762
June 2009
Posts: 771
Layouts: 0
Loc: Chicago area
| Posted: 11/20/2012 12:05:38 AM
I wish all the best for you and your family and I hope you will come back soon. God bless you and your family. | |
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{Betsy}
Creative Dreamer
PeaNut 82,675
April 2003
Posts: 10,333
Layouts: 12
| Posted: 11/20/2012 12:20:18 AM
Lynn, so sorry to hear this. You will be missed. Come back as soon as you can! | |
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wholarmor
I'm NOT a sack sniffer!
PeaNut 29,699
February 2002
Posts: 24,077
Layouts: 92
Loc: SE Washington
| Posted: 11/20/2012 12:25:17 AM
You are loved. Take care, and I hope you will be posting again before too long! | |
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~Manda~
PeaAddict
PeaNut 257,561
April 2006
Posts: 1,299
Layouts: 0
Loc: la la land
| Posted: 11/20/2012 12:25:38 AM
I am sorry to hear this.  You've been through so much.
I agree with the previous poster about finding some way to write, even if just in Word. I went went through a loss once and writing was my one outlet, besides therapy. Sometimes, my IRL friends just didn't understand, ya know?
I wish you well and hope you get what you need during this time. | |
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Zella
PeaFixture
PeaNut 434,965
August 2009
Posts: 3,361
Layouts: 5
Loc: Puget Sound
 | Posted: 11/20/2012 1:13:49 AM
I too am sorry to hear this. BUT. I hope your new lawyer knows what (s)he is doing, and that you finally get some justice.
Take care. | |
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redboots
BucketHead
PeaNut 399,301
November 2008
Posts: 908
Layouts: 0
| Posted: 11/20/2012 1:31:45 AM
I am so sorry that you won't be able to come here for the support you need, but I do hope that you can find a support system to hold you up while you need it. I hope that you can get through this quickly and with as little heartache as possible.
You and your children have been heavy on my mind. I can't imagine how hard these firsts without your husband (and their father) will be, and am so sorry that you're having to endure additional stress and heartache.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you're able to resolve these issues in your favor, and that you'll be back soon.
All the best to you and yours. | |
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*Erin
triathlon pea
PeaNut 80,864
April 2003
Posts: 10,511
Layouts: 13
Loc: Gone to chemo with BethAnne
| Posted: 11/20/2012 1:39:02 AM
Lynn, I'm sorry. I hope that whatever the lawyer needs to do gets done quickly so you can come back. I'll be thinking of you. | |
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piapea
StuckOnPeas
PeaNut 15,134
May 2001
Posts: 2,661
Layouts: 101
Loc: Sacramento, CA
 | Posted: 11/20/2012 1:41:35 AM
Please know that you and your children will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I am hoping things will be resolved soon and you can return. | |
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UkSue
AncestralPea
PeaNut 428,374
June 2009
Posts: 4,300
Layouts: 2
Loc: Greater London
| Posted: 11/20/2012 3:15:51 AM
I will keep you and your children in my prayers . You come over as such a strong woman and I hope there is nothing but happiness waiting in the future for you. | |
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AussieMeg
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 51,689
October 2002
Posts: 6,752
Layouts: 16
Loc: Melbourne, Australia
| Posted: 11/20/2012 3:21:24 AM
I'll be thinking of you and your family Lynn. Big (((Hugs))) to you all. I look forward to seeing you back here soon.
Take care. xxx | |
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cm_stephenson
BucketHead
PeaNut 211,645
June 2005
Posts: 603
Layouts: 22
Loc: Kirriemuir, Scotland
| Posted: 11/20/2012 4:57:49 AM
I will miss you too and third the suggestion to write your feelings down.
My current circumstances are nothing like the scale of your traumas but yesterday when I had a sad day just the act of writing the daily blog post helped me immensely. Obviously you cannot even blog but it is the writing it and reading what you have written that is cathartic and not the publication.
Take care and know that you and yours are in my thoughts too
Cathy | |
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Christine58
pea'rific teacher Union President
PeaNut 164,125
August 2004
Posts: 21,266
Layouts: 0
Loc: Western NY
| Posted: 11/20/2012 5:14:48 AM
Whether you're here or not, you are never far from our thoughts!!
Could your sis post updates??? I think your lawyer is probably right to deactivate stuff...you need to do what is best for you and your kids!!
Lots of prayers always to you!!
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Donna in GA
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 60,695
January 2003
Posts: 8,158
Layouts: 2
| Posted: 11/20/2012 5:26:09 AM
You will be missed. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs | |
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Cake Diva
Cake-a-licous!
PeaNut 90,802
June 2003
Posts: 9,976
Layouts: 35
Loc: Fergus, Ontario
| Posted: 11/20/2012 5:37:24 AM
So sorry to hear that Lynn.
I hope this whole mess gets sorted for you soon.
Hugs - and take care! | |
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NewfCathy
PeaFixture
PeaNut 268,368
July 2006
Posts: 3,888
Layouts: 27
Loc: North of Boston
| Posted: 11/20/2012 5:40:10 AM
Dear Lynn,
I am so sorry that you need to log off for a while. I have been thinking of you and praying for your family.
I wish you the best and can't wait for your update!
Cathy
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lynlam
Don'tcha wish your girlfriend had spurs like mine?
PeaNut 46,248
August 2002
Posts: 6,397
Layouts: 41
Loc: Ohio
| Posted: 11/20/2012 5:50:39 AM
Lynn, I am so sad that you have to go. But know we will be here when you can come back. Please take care of yourself! | |
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NativeNewYorker
black eyed pea with soul!
PeaNut 15,878
May 2001
Posts: 25,034
Layouts: 70
Loc: LI, NY
| Posted: 11/20/2012 5:52:30 AM
We'll miss you! | |
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He**inWA
*Clever Pea Title Here*
PeaNut 220,816
August 2005
Posts: 8,918
Layouts: 2
Loc: Hidden under a pile of scrap!
| Posted: 11/20/2012 6:26:59 AM
I am sooo sorry to hear that you have to be away from here. I hope that it all gets sorted out soon and things properly taken care of.
I know have greatly appreciated the kindness of the peas, yourself included, in the past month and it would be terribly hard to not come here for support.
((((Hugs)))) to you and your family. I wish you the best.
We'll be here when you can come back!
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froggy one
PeaAddict
PeaNut 479,242
August 2010
Posts: 1,171
Layouts: 0
Loc: In my own mind
| Posted: 11/20/2012 6:33:34 AM
I am sorry to see you leave but I know that you are doing the right thing.
Hang in there and stay strong. Sending prayers. | |
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Onekwa
StuckOnPeas
PeaNut 194,574
March 2005
Posts: 2,169
Layouts: 3
Loc: God's Country, NY
| Posted: 11/20/2012 6:38:51 AM
You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope things go smoothly and you continue to heal. We'll be here when you return.
HUGS {{{{{Lynn}}}}} | |
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Spongemom Scrappants
HRH pilates teaching wino ball of fun
PeaNut 297,141
February 2007
Posts: 10,705
Layouts: 31
Loc: South Carolina
| Posted: 11/20/2012 6:46:44 AM
I wish you luck with whatever is being pursued. And look forward to your return to the bucket! | |
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wezee812
I Remember You!
PeaNut 34,854
April 2002
Posts: 6,545
Layouts: 6
Loc: In the arms of my grandkids
| Posted: 11/20/2012 6:56:15 AM
(((hugs))) It's not fair that you have to relinquish a source of support. | |
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jmd1970
PeaAddict
PeaNut 185,538
January 2005
Posts: 1,472
Layouts: 0
Loc: Illinois
| Posted: 11/20/2012 6:56:22 AM
You will be missed! Take care of yourself and your kids and come back as soon as you can! | |
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can_i_pea_2?
We are the Boys of Old Florida
PeaNut 190,429
February 2005
Posts: 10,650
Layouts: 5
Loc: Down Where the Old Gator Plays!
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:02:51 AM
I PM'ed you. (oh crap, ignore the FB part, I missed you were deleting that too!)
I totally understand, but if you need anything, we are here.
I hope you and your kids can have a peaceful Thanksgiving together. lots of (((hugs))). | |
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Pretty In PeaNK
AncestralPea
PeaNut 417,489
March 2009
Posts: 4,083
Layouts: 2
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:03:31 AM
Oh that stinks. Can you create an anonymous account just so you can still talk? Actually, don't answer that.  No one would know it was you, and nothing about the legalities would be mentioned either. Win win.
Take care, we'll see you back soon enough.  | |
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Nanner
AncestralPea
PeaNut 32,283
March 2002
Posts: 4,897
Layouts: 0
Loc: Alberta
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:04:42 AM
I'm so sorry that you have to leave. But you can lurk and come back when it's ok for you to do so.
All the best to you - I hope everything turns out in your favour | |
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Quinlove
BucketHead
PeaNut 30,457
February 2002
Posts: 855
Layouts: 2
Loc: Texas
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:09:53 AM
((( Lynn )))
Yes - you are loved and will be missed | |
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S_cR_aP_Booker
PeaAddict
PeaNut 400,592
November 2008
Posts: 1,322
Layouts: 0
Loc: Mississippi
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:15:09 AM
I am so sorry. Just know we will be here when you come back and will be thinking of you. | |
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scrapbookwriter
BucketHead
PeaNut 314,427
May 2007
Posts: 795
Layouts: 0
Loc: Utah
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:17:32 AM
I will miss you, Lynn. I will continue to remember you in my prayers. I hope to see you back soon.
Take care
Connie | |
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beachgurl
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 288,459
December 2006
Posts: 5,714
Layouts: 0
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:26:43 AM
Well as if you weren't strong enough already, I suppose this too will make you stroger. Hope it passes quickly. Do what you have to do. | |
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peamac
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 340,335
October 2007
Posts: 5,634
Layouts: 1
Loc: Colorado
| Posted: 11/20/2012 7:59:32 AM
(((hugs))) and prayers for you, your kids, and your wonderful MIL! We'll miss you and be thinking of you. Come back as soon as you can! | |
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Nightowl scrapper
Intl Assoc of Epic Length Posters - USA Chapter
PeaNut 103,889
August 2003
Posts: 24,976
Layouts: 0
Loc: Colorado
 | Posted: 11/20/2012 8:02:23 AM
You will be in our thoughts and prayers even if you are not on the board.
I hope that when you come back you will have some good news to share.
You will be missed. | |
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cannes
Proud Pea-lice Wife!
PeaNut 41,743
July 2002
Posts: 7,766
Layouts: 3
| Posted: 11/20/2012 8:07:02 AM
I absolutely get the reason why, but it still makes me sad.
If you need anything, you know how to get a hold of me. We still need to meet for lunch!
Many blessings to you, friend, on this journey. Looking forward to the day that you are able to come back! | |
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*Fresca*
StuckOnPeas
PeaNut 204,709
May 2005
Posts: 2,740
Layouts: 0
Loc: Northern Illinois
| Posted: 11/20/2012 8:12:39 AM
Big hugs and big prayers to you and your family! | |
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danid
Sooner Babe!
PeaNut 271,223
August 2006
Posts: 13,606
Layouts: 0
Loc: Anywhere my Sooner boys are!
| Posted: 11/20/2012 8:13:05 AM
Take care of yourself and your kids my Bon Jovi loving friend...you will be missed! This whole situation sucks, but you will be back and we will be waiting for you! <3
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smilesnpeacesigns
PeaFixture
PeaNut 341,236
October 2007
Posts: 3,414
Layouts: 1
| Posted: 11/20/2012 8:14:10 AM
I will miss you horribly. I'll Pmail you... | |
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lovemybabes
PeaAddict
PeaNut 467,201
May 2010
Posts: 1,154
Layouts: 0
Loc: Where the Army sends us
| Posted: 11/20/2012 8:16:30 AM
I am thinking of you! Please come back when you can. ((hugs)) | |
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agengr2004
Support Nuclear Power
PeaNut 132,136
February 2004
Posts: 13,191
Layouts: 3
Loc: We were southbound 35...
| Posted: 11/20/2012 8:18:14 AM
Take care of yourself and your kids, we will be here when you come back. | |
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