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Just because you don't like people sending things privately doesn't give you the right to expose what she said privately.
Sure it does. Once it came into my inbox, it was my property to do as I wished with.
Not necessarily. I don't know what the latest laws say, but back in the day, the law about actual physical letters was the person who received the letter was entitled to keep physical possession of it even if the sender wanted it back, BUT the sender maintained ownership of the contents. The recipient couldn't publish it without permission of the sender.
I don't know why the rules would be more lenient for email or other electronic messaging. |
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There are times that I agree with what you say on posts and i've even noticed that you've been more nice than usual on a few posts recently. You do have the potential to be funny, you've slipped up and been likable a few times. Unfortunately the majority of the time you act like you're so convinced that no one will want anything to do with you that you're rude and abrasive. Instead of coming across as blunt, bitchy and uncaring of what people think about you it's way more in the 'incredibly sad, man her life must suck to feel the need to treat people like that' category.
It makes me sad for you because I kind of like you and it sucks that instead of taking her peamail as intended you're trying to bring her down with your negativity. |
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There are times that I agree with what you say on posts and i've even noticed that you've been more nice than usual on a few posts recently. You do have the potential to be funny, you've slipped up and been likable a few times. Unfortunately the majority of the time you act like you're so convinced that no one will want anything to do with you that you're rude and abrasive. Instead of coming across as blunt, bitchy and uncaring of what people think about you it's way more in the 'incredibly sad, man her life must suck to feel the need to treat people like that' category.
It makes me sad for you because I kind of like you and it sucks that instead of taking her peamail as intended you're trying to bring her down with your negativity.
What she said.
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IleneTell
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My guess is that the purpose of exposing the pea who wrote the message is to prove that other people are just as mean behind our backs. In effect, making Captain K look better (in her mind), since at least she says what she does to the person's face. I guess the whole concept of putting others down to make yourself look and feel better in comparison. |
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Annabella
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My guess is that the purpose of exposing the pea who wrote the message is to prove that other people are just as mean behind our backs.
Oh no Sukki is blunt on the board, she called Lauren a "former fat person" right to her face. I've caught her on a few threads lately (a gun one comes to mind) and it's no surprise and her CK are friendly. |
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Oh no Sukki is blunt on the board, she called Lauren a "former fat person" right to her face. I've caught her on a few threads lately (a gun one comes to mind) and it's no surprise and her CK are friendly.
Hmm, if she's blunt, why not then just agree with Captain K right on the thread if that's how she feels? |
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ginacivey
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beadhound?
that's who ya'll think she is?
who even cares?
like her or don't
engage or don't
she'll never admit who she was...if this is in fact a troll account
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My guess is that the purpose of exposing the pea who wrote the message is to prove that other people are just as mean behind our backs. In effect, making Captain K look better (in her mind), since at least she says what she does to the person's face. I guess the whole concept of putting others down to make yourself look and feel better in comparison.
I think the purpose of this thread is to give us all a big handslap of some sort, including Sukkii. You know, when she's not asking nosy questions or bumping and then deleting on threads. |
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Oh no Sukki is blunt on the board, she called Lauren a "former fat person" right to her face.
She also apologized for what she said about Lauren, lets not get all revisionist history on this one. |
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I think she is beadhound, although I truly don't care who she/it is. Whatev, she's really a mean-spirited person who obviously has issues. |
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And don't even try to tell me that if I sent one of you a peamail that you wouldn't post it.
Actually, no, I wouldn't. I might post about it...no, I wouldn't even do that, but I would never post an email from another Pea, even if it was you. I think that's a sincere violation of your right to privacy...and as mean as you can be, I still think you have that right.
As far as Peas posting pmails 'back in the day'. I do remember some of those threads. I do remember Peas daring people to post the claimed pmail, but I also remember a lot of people saying it wasn't right, maybe my memory is colored by the fact that I thought it was the wrong thing to do, still do. I also remember so of those threads getting pulled because they contained copies of pmails....different times I guess. | |
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lucyg819
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beadhound?
that's who ya'll think she is?
I don't think she's Beadhound. Captain K is a lot more literate (complete sentences, few misspellings) than Beadhound ever was. Also Beadhound was liberal and Captain K is conservative. People change, people fake it ... but why bother? |
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MetalDancer
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I came in here tonight for a little relaxational pea-ing while eating dinner and opened this thread out of morbid curiosity. Figured it would be at the least entertaining. I've been around long enough that I recognize names (mostly by their avatars) and some by the wonderful pet and family pics in their signatures. I subscribe to PennyRings blog. I've learned a great deal about the Jewish faith. (thanks, Batya) And I've bought and love coconut oil because I read about it here! lol I pray when prayers are requested. I will say out loud that I like Lauren. I think she speaks her mind and you know where you stand. You may not like what she says, but that is your issue to deal with.
This whole thread really makes me kind of sad. From what I read here, and have read on other threads, there are Peas who feel a need to keep score and hold grudges. We're all grown women here (with the possible exception of a random troll or two.) We have families, jobs, looking for jobs, in-laws, out-laws, children and parents with chronic illness, broken marriages, beloved pets we've had to say goodbye to...I could go on and on. I guess my point is - and speaking strictly for myself - I have way too many other hard issues on my plate to keep a spread sheet on a message board. It just seems so pointless and petty to me.
I don't usually post things like this, but I'll tell you why I'm doing it now. As I was in the middle of reading this thread, I got a text from my sister. She told me that my favorite cousin, Sheila, just 53, a year older than me, was diagnosed with breast cancer. She's having a double mastectomy on Feb. 12. And naturally she's scared to death.
Kinda put this whole thread in perspective. |
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KikiNichole
HandSlapPea Pea
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So if someone in real life takes you aside privately and says, "I really like how you handled such and such situation. Those individuals aren't as awesome as they think and I like the way you held your own against them" your immediate response would be to broadcast to the crowd exactly what was said to you in private?!
That doesn't even make sense. Someone was nice and complimentary to you and your instinct is to embarrass them and call them hypocritical.
I think this is actually one of the best analogies offered tonight.
I hope you read it, Captain K, and consider it...especially that last sentence. It'd be nice if, upon reflection, you could realize how wrong you are. But I doubt that shame or humility is something you feel often. |
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Captain K
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KikiNichole
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No thank you. I'm just fine right here. But thanks for spelling my name right. I appreciate that. |
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MrsMarshall
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Take your sanctimony elsewhere Kristen.
You can't speak to Kristen like that. She has the ass of a 21 year old.
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MrsMarshall
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Gosh.. really should NOT have used the double-jerk-off icon after that post.. yikes!   |
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KikiNichole
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Gosh.. really should NOT have used the double-jerk-off icon after that post.. yikes!
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IleneTell
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My ass has that effect on people.
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Sue_Pea
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My guess is that the purpose of exposing the pea who wrote the message is to prove that other people are just as mean behind our backs. In effect, making Captain K look better (in her mind), since at least she says what she does to the person's face. I guess the whole concept of putting others down to make yourself look and feel better in comparison.
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maddiesmum
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jennifercw
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Captain K
AncestralPea
Posted: 1/16/2013 7:07:46 PM
Take your sanctimony elsewhere Kristin.
KikiNichole
HandSlapPea Pea
Posted: 1/16/2013 7:14:41 PM
No thank you. I'm just fine right here. But thanks for spelling my name right. I appreciate that.
~Kristen~
MrsMarshall
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Take your sanctimony elsewhere Kristen.
Did Captain K seriously go back and edit her post to purposely misspell your name after you thanked her for spelling it right? |
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KikiNichole
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Sure looks like it. Because it *was* spelled right the first time. |
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Annabella
Leads a Charmed Life
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 7:53:50 PM
I subscribe to PennyRings blog. I've learned a great deal about the Jewish faith. (thanks, Batya) And I've bought and love coconut oil because I read about it here! lol I pray when prayers are requested. I will say out loud that I like Lauren. I think she speaks her mind and you know where you stand. You may not like what she says, but that is your issue to deal with.
So thanks for sharing that you like all the controversial peas so no surprise you have a problem with this thread. This thread is no different than many others on here, people arguing with each other. Your handslap gets a yawn, people are free to discuss whatever they like. |
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Annabella
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 7:55:31 PM
Did Captain K seriously go back and edit her post to purposely misspell your name after you thanked her for spelling it right?
Of all the weird things to do, then again she is the btter deleter.
KikiNichole - hope you don't mind but I never write out your name because there's so many different spellings of it and I have siggies turned off so it's just easier for me to call you by your peaname. |
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KikiNichole
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Heck no, I don't mind if you use my pea name. |
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jennifercw
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 8:05:51 PM
Sure looks like it. Because it *was* spelled right the first time.
And it was still spelled correctly when mrsmarshall quoted it at 7:17! What a bizarre thing to do.. |
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Annabella
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 8:08:48 PM
This actually happened a month ago between Lauren and MrsSmartyPants, it was pretty humorous because a screen shot was posted but still both called the other a liar.
I have way too many other hard issues on my plate to keep a spread sheet on a message board. It just seems so pointless and petty to me.
It's called having a memory, I don't need to write anything down. |
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maddiesmum
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MetalDancer
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So thanks for sharing that you like all the controversial peas so no surprise you have a problem with this thread. This thread is no different than many others on here, people arguing with each other. Your handslap gets a yawn, people are free to discuss whatever they like.
First of all, I wasn't handslapping anyone. YOU pointed out that people are free to discuss whatever they like and that's what I was doing. And I only mentioned three Peas by name. I seriously doubt that these are "all the controversial peas." Sorry I made you yawn. |
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Kelpea
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Please, Captain K: do not assume that all Peas would post a private message from a fellow pea. It never occurred to me to consider doing such a thing...it would be such a betrayal. |
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TinaFB
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 8:37:25 PM
I've had quite a few interesting peamails and emails from peas in my years here. Flames, handslaps, confessions, gossip, rumors, etc. I've never posted one of them, though a few could certainly entertain this board for days. If I ever was feeling deprived of attention, I could certainly dig one out. |
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scoobers
Why, YES!, I am a princess.
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 9:09:55 PM
I've always said Beadhound never really left.........things that make you go hmmmmmmmmm |
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lucyg819
pearl-clutching nitpicker
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 9:35:28 PM
This whole thread really makes me kind of sad. From what I read here, and have read on other threads, there are Peas who feel a need to keep score and hold grudges. We're all grown women here (with the possible exception of a random troll or two.) We have families, jobs, looking for jobs, in-laws, out-laws, children and parents with chronic illness, broken marriages, beloved pets we've had to say goodbye to...I could go on and on. I guess my point is - and speaking strictly for myself - I have way too many other hard issues on my plate to keep a spread sheet on a message board. It just seems so pointless and petty to me.
I don't need a spread sheet to keep track of how many times Lauren has told me to fuck off, or how many times Captain K has gone out of her way to be unkind to various peas (actually, I have lost track of the latter).
So you can take your handslappiness and stuff it. And that's the polite way of saying what I was really thinking. |
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northern california
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benem
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Metal Dancer I am so so sorry and I will send healing thoughts her way.
I did get the point of your post. I've had some hard times too. Sometimes I can't handle the pettiness.
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Since we're on the subject, I've never understood the need for troll identities. Sure, there were some fun ones, like Miss Manners and Threadkiller Jack, but real trolls (the ones who post under a different name or come back w/a new identity) always confound me. We're all anonymous(except to IRL friends or peas that we have met who might also post here). So, what difference does it make if you change your identity? If I have something to say to you and I feel that it's that important then trust me, I'll say it as Scrapmaven. No need to be someone else. IRL I can't wear a disguise, so I don't do it here. OTOH, I also don't give up my identity here, either. Too dangerous. Be careful what you put out there, cause once you hit send it stays in internet land forever. However, if you put out something that is controversial then stand your ground and don't hide or run away and come back as someone else.
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MetalDancer
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So you can take your handslappiness and stuff it. And that's the polite way of saying what I was really thinking.
Like I said in a later post, I wasn't handslapping anybody. I was just saying what I felt and it wasn't directed to any one person. So keep clutching your pearls. It will be okay tomorrow.
ETA - Thank you to those who offered prayers and good thoughts for Sheila's health. I really appreciate it. |
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lucyg819
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| Posted: 1/16/2013 11:22:20 PM
Of course you were hand slapping. It's not the end of the world, but claiming you weren't doesn't make it so.
Carry on. I'm done. |
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northern california
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Metal Dancer will say a prayer for you cousin. I get what you are expressing. If you were a *top tier* pea the responses to you would be much different. Since you are not (I'm not in the club either) you will be called a handslapper by the biggest handslappers here. All a part of the charm I guess.
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So you can take your handslappiness and stuff it. And that's the polite way of saying what I was really thinking.
Like I said in a later post, I wasn't handslapping anybody. I was just saying what I felt and it wasn't directed to any one person.
I didn't take it like you were hand slapping. Just thinking out loud. Not judging, just reflecting.
Captain K is unhappy. She's sad, angry and just plain mean. I'd feel sorry for her but that would be giving her more of my time. and energy. |
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benem
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I didn't take it like you were hand slapping. Just thinking out loud. Not judging, just reflecting.
Me too.
Getting terrible news like that, thinking about the larger issues of life and death - it does change your perspective. |
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Diva Cups Merkins Tub Girl Crock Pots Kitten Heels The Hoff HOF Obama Bush Kardashians Shopping Carts Shopping Trolleys Dead Aunt Cookies Trolls Not Trolls Garden Snakes Snails Stripper Poles with or with out Birds In-Laws Scoff-Laws Blogs Borg Paint Colors Dinner Books and Each Other"
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MetalDancer
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I didn't take it like you were hand slapping. Just thinking out loud. Not judging, just reflecting.
Thank you - that's how I meant it exactly! I do appreciate the prayers and good thoughts being sent on behalf of my cousin Sheila. |
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| Posted: 1/17/2013 1:33:29 PM
Metaldancer I agree with other posters in that your post was not taken as a handslap. You made a good point. Life is too short to "sweat the small stuff."
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WannaPea
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PeaNut 151,172
June 2004
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| Posted: 1/17/2013 1:41:29 PM
and I have siggies turned off so it's just easier for me to call you by your peaname.
Totally off topic, but for someone who has siggys turned off, you sure do change yours a lot. What's up with that? |
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Ruby Slippered Pea
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March 2003
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| Posted: 1/17/2013 3:01:19 PM
If you were a *top tier* pea the responses to you would be much different. Since you are not (I'm not in the club either) you will be called a handslapper by the biggest handslappers here.
This is soooo true. I didn't feel like what you said was a handslap by any means and I don't get the peas who took offense and chose to make it personal. It was almost like they felt you were personally attacking them.
All a part of the charm I guess.
and is actually proof of the hypocracy that goes on here that so many people get riled up about.
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AncestralPea
PeaNut 281,551
October 2006
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 | Posted: 1/17/2013 4:15:38 PM
False advertising--that wasn't interesting AT ALL!!!
So someone likes you, so what. Too bad she doesn't feel free to be herself on here and agree with you when she feels like it. That seems sort of cowardly. But I'd hardly call it "interesting". | |
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