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Sukkii
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Posted: 1/18/2013 3:19:01 AM
This is Sukkii here, not Captain K. I am feeling pretty bad right now because to some it appears I am a mean person. I sent what I thought was a private message to her. You will notice I said sometimes..... sometimes I like how she hits the nail on the head, sometimes she is funny. I didn't ever say I like her for being mean to others. I also asked if she was a Troll and said she would be scathing towards me as well. I am not mean, I love hearing about sucess, looking at pictures of kids, nice cakes generally good things.

I did call Lauren a former fat person but that is the truth, she is now a current slim person, I know that I made a very childish remark about another persons appearance, I was wrong to do that.

As for the Gun Debate, am I not allowed to express my opinion?

I am a recent 'empty nester' my kids are half a world away and I admit I miss them terribly. I am not making excuses for that nor for what I post and I really don't want to be inflamatory.

I should have said in my PM to Captain K that I found some of the things funny and some very hurtful and been more specific about what I found funny. I'm very embarassed about this and I am learning lessons about posting here every day.

Maureen, I did get your PM and thanks

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Posted: 1/18/2013 7:52:10 AM
Sukkii, I'm glad you came back and explained, and didn't let this drive you away from the board. I don't think your peamail makes you a bad person or a "mean" person. No one is perfect and we all learn from our mistakes. I imagine this must have been pretty difficult, so hugs to you



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Posted: 1/18/2013 8:37:10 AM
Sukkii, having an embarrassing experience here just makes you a full-fledged Pea. Keep on coming back.


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Posted: 1/18/2013 8:49:10 AM
Yeah, what Janelle said. You're human. In my book, I don't judge a person based on one experience, but collective experiences. I think this just gave you birds eye view on the type of person Capt. K can be...we've all learned things the hard way from time to time.

Don't let this experience ruin the board for you. Unless it's a repetitive pattern no one will remember in a week anyway.



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Posted: 1/18/2013 8:55:20 AM

am I not allowed to express my opinion?


Sure you are....but it would be nice if it was based on at least a modicum of fact.




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Posted: 1/18/2013 8:58:26 AM
Trust me, Sukki - you're not the one who ended up looking bad here.



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Posted: 1/18/2013 9:00:59 AM


am I not allowed to express my opinion?



Sure you are....but it would be nice if it was based on at least a modicum of fact.


That could be said about many on both sides of the argument.

Sukkii, glad to see this didn't run you off and I'm so glad you got my peamail!

gar
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Posted: 1/18/2013 10:01:08 AM

Yeah, what Janelle said. You're human. In my book, I don't judge a person based on one experience, but collective experiences. I think this just gave you birds eye view on the type of person Capt. K can be...we've all learned things the hard way from time to time.

Don't let this experience ruin the board for you. Unless it's a repetitive pattern no one will remember in a week anyway


I'll second that



Today, I will be colouring outside the lines.


gar
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Posted: 1/18/2013 10:01:10 AM

Yeah, what Janelle said. You're human. In my book, I don't judge a person based on one experience, but collective experiences. I think this just gave you birds eye view on the type of person Capt. K can be...we've all learned things the hard way from time to time.

Don't let this experience ruin the board for you. Unless it's a repetitive pattern no one will remember in a week anyway


I'll second that



Today, I will be colouring outside the lines.


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Posted: 1/18/2013 10:08:01 AM
I'm glad you came back to explain Sukkii, and

Trust me, Sukki - you're not the one who ended up looking bad here.
I agree.



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Posted: 1/18/2013 10:57:15 AM
Sukkii, you're not the one who looks like a dick here.


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Posted: 1/18/2013 6:21:07 PM

Trust me, Sukki - you're not the one who ended up looking bad here.


True.





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Posted: 1/18/2013 7:38:16 PM
I ditto the dittos above!


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Posted: 1/18/2013 7:43:07 PM
Sukkii I didn't think anything bad about your peamail. I thought you were being nice to someone. Don't be embarrassed.


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Posted: 1/18/2013 9:12:52 PM
Sukii, thank you for being upfront on this thread. You were simply PMing another pea and your expectation was that it would remain private. You have a right to voice your opinion and to send a PM. I'm not judging you or upset w/you in any way. In fact, I think it's cool that you are owning it here.

Going through the adjustment phase of being an empty nester can't be too easy. In time I'm sure you'll find your footing, but right now it's a challenge and just know that you will be OK and your children are thriving.


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Posted: 1/18/2013 10:25:37 PM
Sukki I think this shows way more about the character of the OP than it does you. I agree with the above posters.


For some reason this reminds me of Sally Field.
Rhonda, this made me laugh my guts out...awesome.

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Posted: 1/19/2013 10:08:22 AM
I agree with the others - Sukkii, we are all human. Even though I hardly ever post anymore, I do read and I enjoy your posts. Don't let something like Captain K control your experiences here.

Keep being yourself.


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Posted: 1/19/2013 10:34:02 AM
I don't think you did a bad thing, Sukkii, I think Captain K did.

I'm not sure what her motivation was for posting the pmail, but if it was to make herself look good, it was a failure.

If anything you, Sukkii, just proved you are a decent person, and as such you shouldn't play with vipers. They are nasty critters, even when you're nice to them, they bite. Lesson learned.
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