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Posted: 1/23/2013 12:33:05 PM
I'm doing my own version of the Love Dare. Any suggestions you have used to rejuvenate your own marriage after real life makes it dull?

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Posted: 1/23/2013 12:40:44 PM
Leave a trail of your clothes (including bra and panties) from the front door to the bedroom and be waiting for him when he gets home. It is fun to see how fast they can get from the front door to the bedroom!


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Live your life in such a way that when you get up in the morning and your feet hit the floor...Satan shudders and says "Oh shit...she's awake!"



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Posted: 1/23/2013 12:43:02 PM
text a photo of a nightie laying on the bed....

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Posted: 1/23/2013 12:48:26 PM
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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:00:31 PM
Have sex somewhere in the house besides the bedroom.

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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:00:43 PM
Call him and tell him a HOT lunch is waiting for him at home.

or

If he has an office with a door that locks, well now you can just bring that hot lunch to the office.. Just make sure you do all your adjusting before you unlock that door.

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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:07:53 PM
do all the dirty stuff that he normally wants you to do but you usually say no.



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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:10:31 PM

Leave a trail of your clothes (including bra and panties) from the front door to the bedroom and be waiting for him when he gets home. It is fun to see how fast they can get from the front door to the bedroom!


HAHA.. I just keep thinking of my 17 and 16 year old's expression if they saw that!!



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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:13:33 PM
Go on a date night and stop by the adult toy store before you head home...I recommend a few drinks before you go though. Especially if this would out of the norm for you...


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Live your life in such a way that when you get up in the morning and your feet hit the floor...Satan shudders and says "Oh shit...she's awake!"



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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:32:14 PM
I think it's the little things.


Not knowing the love dare, so I might be out of context here


Text him every day/ "Good morning handsome! Hope you have a terrific day! Love you so much!" ...

Rub his back, when you walk by. Non sexual physical touch means so much, and can lead to so much more.


I think w/most men, just initate. You make all the first moves. Men love when their women pounce on them and you act like you can't get enough.




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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:36:57 PM
I also like to sneak love notes into his wallet...


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Live your life in such a way that when you get up in the morning and your feet hit the floor...Satan shudders and says "Oh shit...she's awake!"



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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:41:05 PM
You can change up date night. Tell him you are going out to dinner instead order his favorite take out and book a room at a nearby hotel. On the way to the restaurant direct him instead to the take out place and tell him you are eating in tonight. Same money as a fancy dinner out with drinks but so much more fun.

Texts during the day that you are thinking of him. A note on the seat of his car to find when he leaves in the morning. Tell him you are looking forward to spending time with him this weekend. Anything that allows you to reach out in a way you wouldn't normally breaks the routine.

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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:45:22 PM
Not sure how 'spicy' this is, but we leave little love notes in surprise places for each other to find.
The way you feel about each other before you hit the bedroom is just as important as what goes on in the bedroom.




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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:58:32 PM
Post It sells heart shaped sticky notes. I like to go to his car at night and plaster his windows with the hearts so he finds them in the morning. So much fun!


Motto of a powerful woman:

Live your life in such a way that when you get up in the morning and your feet hit the floor...Satan shudders and says "Oh shit...she's awake!"



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Posted: 1/23/2013 1:58:34 PM

Leave a trail of your clothes (including bra and panties) from the front door to the bedroom and be waiting for him when he gets home. It is fun to see how fast they can get from the front door to the bedroom!
fun idea, just make sure he isn't bringing a friend home for an after work drink that day.



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Posted: 1/23/2013 2:10:55 PM
We went on a date and pretended that we had just met and it was our first date. It was so much fun!


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Posted: 1/23/2013 4:06:49 PM
Thanks for all the ideas.

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Posted: 1/23/2013 4:10:26 PM

do all the dirty stuff that he normally wants you to do but you usually say no.


You say no?


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Posted: 1/23/2013 4:39:05 PM

You say no?


I don't.
But I was talking to the collective "you". There's a lot of pear clutchers on 2peas, they are the ones I'm talking to. lol


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Posted: 1/23/2013 6:15:53 PM
pear clutchers

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Oh, the visual.



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Posted: 1/23/2013 7:20:11 PM
I have never heard the term pear clutcher. I am certainly not one. I say no to nothing.

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Posted: 1/23/2013 7:25:25 PM
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Surprise him with a massage, a lot of times it's touch/intimacy that needs to be boosted as well as taking other steps to make each other feel valued.

Some great ideas on here

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Posted: 1/23/2013 8:38:35 PM
I'm good with anything that has already been suggested and most likely anything else that has yet to be suggested, except for this -


Have sex somewhere in the house besides the bedroom.


LOL! I just no longer find any other place in my house the least bit romantic, fun, or COMFORTABLE! The floor in front of the fireplace, the kitchen table, the landing of the stairway, etc. Hard, scratchy surfaces. Yuck.



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Posted: 1/23/2013 8:43:07 PM
omg.. LOL. Pear clutchers.
I swear to jesus I am the suckiest typist when I'm in a hurry. haha.


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Posted: 1/23/2013 9:12:20 PM

omg.. LOL. Pear clutchers.
I swear to jesus I am the suckiest typist when I'm in a hurry. haha.



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Posted: 1/23/2013 9:22:09 PM
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Posted: 1/23/2013 9:25:54 PM

LOL! I just no longer find any other place in my house the least bit romantic, fun, or COMFORTABLE! The floor in front of the fireplace, the kitchen table, the landing of the stairway, etc. Hard, scratchy surfaces. Yuck.


You got that right!! I have lots of scars and arthritis in both knees. My DH has pins in his neck and a bad back. We need a soft and fluffy surface at all times. HAHAHAHA!!!



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Posted: 1/23/2013 10:07:45 PM
People think outside the bedroom: kitchen, living room, coat closet, entertainment/gaming room, the laundry room (get naked!) , the car at night, the shower, bathroom. Endless possibilities for kinkiness.


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Posted: 1/23/2013 11:25:10 PM

People think outside the bedroom: kitchen, living room, coat closet, entertainment/gaming room, the laundry room (get naked!) , the car at night, the shower, bathroom. Endless possibilities for kinkiness.


Don't forget the pool! (at night!)

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Posted: 1/23/2013 11:27:35 PM
damn ya'll, quit being so vanilla.
Rose petals and post it notes?

Whip out some leather and some porn, that'll pique is interest fairly fast.


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Posted: 1/23/2013 11:41:45 PM
A couch is plenty soft and fluffy...

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Posted: 1/23/2013 11:44:34 PM

LOL! I just no longer find any other place in my house the least bit romantic, fun, or COMFORTABLE! The floor in front of the fireplace, the kitchen table, the landing of the stairway, etc. Hard, scratchy surfaces. Yuck.


Me too! I think we're getting old.


We text each other special texts during the work day.


A few months ago my friend had to run errands and left her phone with her daughter. Her daughter gets this text:

Husband: Your naked body is hot!
Daughter, being smart, pretends not to see text.
A little later, husband: What, you're letting me put myself out there with no response?
Daughter: Dad, this is XXXX.
And then Dad doesn't respond.

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