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cannes
Proud Pea-lice Wife!
PeaNut 41,743
July 2002
Posts: 7,699
Layouts: 3
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I didn't realize you two were sisters!
I think of her often. Please give her my love and let her know I'd still love to do lunch whenever she's up to it! |
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AussieMeg
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 51,689
October 2002
Posts: 6,641
Layouts: 16
Loc: Melbourne, Australia
| Posted: 1/30/2013 8:14:34 PM
Thank you Lynn and Clee for the update, it's so good to hear from you.
I'm so glad that you've made the decision to move, it really sounded like a great idea when you first mentioned it. I know that when you mentioned it you were worried about leaving 'the boy', but it sounds like he'll do just fine! Big (((Hugs))) to you and your family.
Wench - love the spiderlings LOL!! | |
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Tuva42
PeaFixture
PeaNut 41,763
July 2002
Posts: 3,556
Layouts: 17
Loc: Somewhere in the middle...
| Posted: 1/30/2013 8:23:15 PM
Seriously? Women think that widows are after their husbands? How awful!! The only thing I would think a widow would want out of my husband is furnace filter changing and spider squishin'. What idiots!
Lynn, I was so happy to see your update. Clee, thanks for posting it. |
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writermom1
Thrift Whisperer
PeaNut 114,407
November 2003
Posts: 22,319
Layouts: 66
Loc: At the intersection of Hooterville and Stars Hollow
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Thank you for sharing and please send along best wishes. |
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Annabella
Leads a Charmed Life
PeaNut 43,843
July 2002
Posts: 42,259
Layouts: 46
Loc: East Coast
| Posted: 1/30/2013 8:32:12 PM
Thanks the update. I'm happy to hear her son is doing well and she's able to take the next step and move to CA with her dd. Best wishes to her! |
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danid
Sooner Babe!
PeaNut 271,223
August 2006
Posts: 13,584
Layouts: 0
Loc: Anywhere my Sooner boys are!
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So glad you updated us.....I pray that her days get brighter and her pockets of sunshine grow into huge sunbeams! Miss you Scrappin'! |
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nettieintx
PeaFixture
PeaNut 57,197
November 2002
Posts: 3,685
Layouts: 35
Loc: Living in Kim’s perfect world!!!
| Posted: 1/30/2013 8:41:09 PM
I have been wondering how you've been Lynn. I didn't know you weren't posting right now and missed that piece. I hope you are well. Is there anything I can do please let me know. | |
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littlefish
Peain' in the Pool
PeaNut 78,065
March 2003
Posts: 16,349
Layouts: 139
Loc: Sunshine State
| Posted: 1/30/2013 9:13:32 PM
Thanks for sharing the update, ladies. I was just wondering about you the other day. |
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SueSume
AncestralPea
PeaNut 262,757
May 2006
Posts: 4,596
Layouts: 5
Loc: Big Bottom Valley
| Posted: 1/30/2013 10:23:25 PM
My best to Spidey and her Spiderlings.
Thank your for the update! |
Sue Who? SueASume, SueSume, who cares?
Reality is made up of words.-Ferdinando Buscema
Words are hard.-Hannah Kelly
NSBR: "We're like a big damn disfunctional family. We'll beat the crap out of each other, and it's ok, but dammit, if an outsider turns on one of ours, we circle the wagons." -Free~Bird
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Runner5
Pea All You Can Pea!
PeaNut 36,843
April 2002
Posts: 16,617
Layouts: 25
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I loved reading your update. I think about you often and look forward to the time when you feel like posting again.
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{Betsy}
Creative Dreamer
PeaNut 82,675
April 2003
Posts: 10,300
Layouts: 12
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leftturnonly
Will trade mosquitoes for cookies.
PeaNut 416,788
March 2009
Posts: 19,583
Layouts: 0
Loc: Living in Kim's Perfect World, again.
 | Posted: 1/31/2013 1:18:43 AM
I didn't know you guys are sisters either. Thank you so much for posting her entire letter, clee. 
Enough emotional energy left over from taking care of your two spiders to try to steal someone else's husband?
BWAHAHAHAHA! 
Best joke I heard all day. 
{{{{{Big hugs}}}}} to both you sisters.
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Julee
=)
PeaNut 171,562
October 2004
Posts: 10,048
Layouts: 0
Loc: The 'Nati
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Thanks for the update Clee and Lynn. I'm so glad you guys have each other! And it absolutely warms my heart that you will be moving to be closer to your MIL. That is so rare and special. I pray everything comes together and the repairing/selling of the house and move will be easy. |
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TinCin
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 29,331
February 2002
Posts: 6,215
Layouts: 0
Loc: Living in the palm of the hand.
| Posted: 1/31/2013 7:25:13 AM
So nice to hear an update ScrappinSpidey. I can't imagine what you have been through and you sound like an amazing family. I hope it brings you more peace to live near your MIL. Best of luck and come back when you are ready. |
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UkSue
AncestralPea
PeaNut 428,374
June 2009
Posts: 4,243
Layouts: 2
Loc: Greater London
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I was wondering about her a few days so- I didn't realise she had left he pod 
So glad to read that she is surviving despite all that life's throwing at her. And I agree with other posters, she is lucky to have such a great sister! |
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scrapulous
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 118,732
December 2003
Posts: 7,226
Layouts: 2
| Posted: 1/31/2013 8:34:13 AM
Thank you for the update. I'm so glad there are some good days peppered in with the bad.
Why can't she post here or on Facebook? I must have missed that part.
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jjpswife
PeaFixture
PeaNut 55,741
November 2002
Posts: 3,950
Layouts: 51
Loc: Out here in the middle...
| Posted: 1/31/2013 8:38:40 AM
This was so great to read. Thank you for sharing it with us! Sounds like you are a really great sister.
Hugs to you both!! |
Kathy
"Open up my head and let me out...little baby."
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fishwitch
PeaNut
PeaNut 577,311
January 2013
Posts: 178
Layouts: 0
Loc: Texas
| Posted: 1/31/2013 8:46:13 AM
I just heard about your loss and though the words are small please know that I am so sorry for your loss. Dealing with grief is so difficult and emotionally draining. Be gentle with yourself and try to find a little joy each day. For me that was the hardest part. I felt guilty if I forgot for a moment about my loss. But eventually the good days were more than the bad day. Hugs to you dear. |
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bethany1023
StuckOnPeas
PeaNut 315,499
May 2007
Posts: 2,410
Layouts: 3
Loc: Midwest
| Posted: 1/31/2013 9:56:03 AM
hugs spidey, and sending good peaceful vibes to you and your family. I'm glad your DD is getting it back together, and that you're making longer term decisions about where to live etc.
hang in there, and know that you are so very, very loved. | |
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cm_stephenson
BucketHead
PeaNut 211,645
June 2005
Posts: 598
Layouts: 22
Loc: Kirriemuir, Scotland
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I am another pea who wonders frequently how you are all doing Lynn and good to hear things are moving - even if too slowly sometimes) in better directions for you all.
It has been hard to know "what is right" or "what is wrong" to do and I fear being the person who causes her major pain out of ignorance. BUT the alternative is NOT being there for her and I can't do that.
Hugs for you Clee ... trust your instincts you are obviously getting it right.
Best wishes to you all
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basketlacey
PeaAddict
PeaNut 103,805
August 2003
Posts: 1,509
Layouts: 0
| Posted: 1/31/2013 10:10:09 AM
So good to hear your update!
Prayers for you that each day gets a bit easier!
Good luck with your move. |
Basketlacey
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3kidmama
AncestralPea
PeaNut 268,201
July 2006
Posts: 4,928
Layouts: 8
Loc: Northwoods
| Posted: 1/31/2013 10:29:36 AM
Thanks so much for updating us, Clee! Spidey and her kids and inlaws were so on my heart and in my prayers over Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years. Those "firsts" without Daddy and Hubby around... I have no words! 
Spidey, just know there are many of us who are missing you and keeping your family in our hearts. I'm thankful that you were able to finally get the counseling thing worked out and that you have plans to look forward to.
We just need to find you a great drywall expert! | |
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3kidmama
AncestralPea
PeaNut 268,201
July 2006
Posts: 4,928
Layouts: 8
Loc: Northwoods
| Posted: 1/31/2013 10:40:56 AM
I don't understand why she can't post any longer. This wasn't a criminal case.
Why can't she post here or on Facebook? I must have missed that part.
It's grief! Overwhelming, terrible, horrible grief.
When you are trying to cope with such an indescribable loss, lots of things won't make sense to those on the outside - you'd think keeping food to eat in the house wouldn't be an ordeal either - but it is. I'm certain that some days even trying to get through the next hour is an unimaginable ordeal. Sobbing so hard you feel like you can't breath....
The day will come again when she does have the emotional energy to post and join in on the Pea mayhem. For now, she needs to just get through the day/week/month.....
(((((((Spidey)))))))
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can_i_pea_2?
We are the Boys of Old Florida
PeaNut 190,429
February 2005
Posts: 10,617
Layouts: 5
Loc: Down Where the Old Gator Plays!
| Posted: 1/31/2013 11:28:42 AM
I don't understand why she can't post any longer. This wasn't a criminal case.
Why can't she post here or on Facebook? I must have missed that part.
It's grief! Overwhelming, terrible, horrible grief.
Well, that is true, definitely, there was a little more to it. There was a dispute with the insurance company about the accident claim, and her attorney told her to shut down her social media accounts, due to a possible pending lawsuit. |
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jenjie
PEAsed to be here
PeaNut 88,667
May 2003
Posts: 22,803
Layouts: 283
Loc: NJ
| Posted: 1/31/2013 1:12:06 PM
Lynn like so many others, I have thought of you often and am so glad to see this update. I hope you and your mil will be of great comfort and strength to one another.
With that said, why did none of us know you guys are sisters?! |
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scrapulous
Ancient Ancestor of Pea
PeaNut 118,732
December 2003
Posts: 7,226
Layouts: 2
| Posted: 1/31/2013 1:22:36 PM
There was a dispute with the insurance company about the accident claim, and her attorney told her to shut down her social media accounts, due to a possible pending lawsuit.
Thank you. The way it was said, I knew there was more to it than grief, although I can only imagine how terrible the grief is. | |
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purpledaisy
Calm
PeaNut 116,261
November 2003
Posts: 25,157
Layouts: 102
| Posted: 1/31/2013 1:40:06 PM
Big (((hugs))) to her. The part about losing friendships because women are concerned she's after their husband makes me sad. I pray that she and her kids continue to heal and find their way through all of this. |
Becca
May we be consumed with the Creator of all things rather than with things created.
6 rings - no cheating! Go STEELERS!
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tidegirl
PeaFixture
PeaNut 343,259
October 2007
Posts: 3,072
Layouts: 0
Loc: SW USA
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Thank you for the update. I am glad things are going (slow but) well. You are on a journey and it is great that you are taking it one step at a time. The memorial ink will be something you can enjoy forever. You are often in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck and Best wishes to your family. | |
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lynlam
Don'tcha wish your girlfriend had spurs like mine?
PeaNut 46,248
August 2002
Posts: 6,377
Layouts: 41
Loc: Ohio
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