If you looked at your husband and said . . . .

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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:48:42 PM
"I'd like to have sex with you at least every other day."

What would be his response??
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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:52:51 PM
"Who are you, and what have you done with my wife?"


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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:54:32 PM

"Who are you, and what have you done with my wife?"


Probably the same thing but he would be pretty happy.


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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:56:08 PM
My dh is 49 and if I would have said that anytime other than the last year, his eyes would have lit up like Christmas trees. Also, when we were in our 20s, I wouldn't have needed to say that because that's pretty much what we did.

Now, in the past year, we aren't even CLOSE to that and my dh (who used to want it daily if he could get it) doesn't initiate it nearly as much. It's a testosterone thing, but it still makes him sad. Still, if I would say that I think his response would be "Sure!" (but inside he would be thinking "yeah right".

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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:56:19 PM

He'd say, "Why do want to cut it in half?"









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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:56:44 PM
"Have I done something to displease you? Are you sick? Why are we cutting back?!"


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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:57:50 PM
It would be a clever response I am sure . We are not scheduled/planner people in any way/area in our lives/family so that comment would be really out of left field. It would come across negatively/demanding whether it was sex, making dinner, etc., but that's just because we don't communicate that way.


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Posted: 2/17/2013 4:59:56 PM
Well, I said something very similar to my exH (except it was to ask if he could be happy if we had sex every day) and he told me it wasn't enough to *really* make him happy as he would still want it more...

Wonder why I felt there was no pleasing that man.


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Posted: 2/17/2013 5:18:14 PM
I think he'd ask if we could start immediately. We've been living apart for 6 months while we are selling this house and we've seen each other 3 times since September.

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Posted: 2/17/2013 5:26:01 PM
Lol, mine would ask me what I'd done.

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Posted: 2/17/2013 5:37:37 PM
Mine would think I wanted to start an argument. We have been together for 10 years now & he just turned 40. We have gone for months at a time without being intimate. It has worsened in the past 5 years. It's sad & I have even gone so far as to threaten an affair just to feel "loved" & "sexy". I have done just about everything imaginable to jump start our sex life & have found it to be a lost cause. I feel more like a roommate than I do a wife.
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Posted: 2/17/2013 5:40:41 PM
Well, we're newlyweds but he's 65 and I'm almost 51. His response..."cool. "
I think we do pretty well but he'd love more.





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Posted: 2/17/2013 6:01:32 PM
Can we start now?

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Posted: 2/17/2013 6:07:17 PM
"Santa got my letter" springs to mind.....


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Posted: 2/17/2013 6:17:10 PM
I'm pretty sure my SO would faint and then wonder who I was.



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Posted: 2/17/2013 6:22:26 PM
"What do you want" and or "What have you done"


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Posted: 2/17/2013 6:32:49 PM
Let's do this.



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Posted: 2/17/2013 6:40:01 PM
"What's new."

I've actually had a similar conversation with my DH just recently.


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Posted: 2/17/2013 6:45:05 PM
Tried it. Gave up. He has serious sleep apneoa, cpap machine and low testosterone. He can take meds but it will most likely give him a heart attack.
*weighs hands* death or sex?
I choose to find other things to fill the empty spaces with (no pun intended) and get on with life.
If we 'get it together' more than once in two months, I'm a happy girl these days!




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Posted: 2/17/2013 7:16:37 PM
"That's all?"

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Posted: 2/17/2013 8:06:36 PM
He'd remind me that I'm the one who often falls asleep first and that he is never too tired, so just say the word and he's game.



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Posted: 2/17/2013 8:24:42 PM
I'm three weeks postpartum. He'd be thrilled to start things back up again.

However, the thought makes me want to cross my legs in defense. I'm not quite ready to hop back on that horse. Poor man


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Posted: 2/17/2013 8:35:01 PM
"Mine would think I wanted to start an argument. We have been together for 10 years now & he just turned 40. We have gone for months at a time without being intimate. It has worsened in the past 5 years. It's sad & I have even gone so far as to threaten an affair just to feel "loved" & "sexy". I have done just about everything imaginable to jump start our sex life & have found it to be a lost cause. I feel more like a roommate than I do a wife."

That's really sad

Maybe your DH needs to see a doctor or a psychologist. Seriously


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Posted: 2/17/2013 9:37:33 PM
He would give me his usual response...I'm too tired.


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Posted: 2/17/2013 9:43:35 PM
"Let's go for it!" But it's not much different than what we usually do anyway.


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Posted: 2/17/2013 9:57:41 PM

"That's all?"




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Posted: 2/17/2013 10:01:59 PM
His response would be "Can we start today?"
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"Who are you, and what have you done with my wife?"


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Posted: 2/17/2013 11:20:18 PM
"We already do."


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Posted: 2/17/2013 11:46:28 PM
Why? What have I done wrong?
We have been together for a little over 2 years so since we are pretty much newlyweds twice a day is about the average here except for last month, of course, because I was postpartum.
I held back 28 days but I couldn't hold off any more.


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Posted: 2/18/2013 12:12:10 AM
Right now he'd look at me like I was crazy. (9 days after csection)

On a normal day he would probably run screaming in the other direction! After fertility struggles he is tired of scheduled sex!


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Posted: 2/18/2013 12:51:38 AM
Yah, my stbxdh would be mad. We had a lot of issues but daily sex wasn't one of them.


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"woohoo!"


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Posted: 2/18/2013 1:18:31 AM
Sorry I have a headache.

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Posted: 2/18/2013 7:18:13 AM
I am sure mine would respond "Yeah Right"

I agree with NaniwebbEMT - after infertility struggles and scheduled sex, it is too mechanical.

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I'm not sure, so I'll do an experiment and ask. I have ideas though


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Posted: 2/18/2013 8:29:28 AM
Mine would say finally and hell yes.


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Posted: 2/18/2013 8:44:32 AM
Sounds good to me!

Let's get started right now!

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Posted: 2/18/2013 3:23:11 PM
I'm going through fertility treatments so that's already the norm for us... He sure doesn't mind though.
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Posted: 2/18/2013 7:55:53 PM
I can't put this word her but......F@%# Ya!


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Posted: 2/18/2013 8:59:57 PM
When is that going to happen? (We work opposite shifts and only even have the opportunity twice a week.)



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Posted: 2/18/2013 9:22:24 PM
My BF and I have been together over 2 years. He is 20 years older than me (He's 57) so every other day is not always in the cards but no man would ever turn down that proposition.


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Posted: 2/18/2013 9:38:50 PM
"what does that mean?". His response right this minute.


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He would wonder why not every day....



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Posted: 2/18/2013 9:50:04 PM

Thank you, Jesus!


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"Who are you, and what have you done with my wife?"



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Posted: 2/19/2013 3:24:17 PM
Yeah sure, right....come to bed earlier and then we'll see. He also has a low testosterone and just isn't into it as I am. We've also gone months. I don't think he misses it.

He won't go to consuling either. He thinks nothing is wrong....I think my weight is also an issue. He feels I'm not heathly and overweight, while he does workout, almost daily, because he's a refferee for basketball in the evenings and on weekends. I'm trying but it's a slow process.







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Posted: 2/19/2013 3:34:12 PM
Me too babe!

Unfortunately by the time he gets in after working 18 hours days he collapses out of sheer exhaustion. Then there is that whole being on the other side of the world thing too. LoL

We are in our mid thirties and frequency has definitely declined but not due to interest.


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Posted: 2/19/2013 3:39:07 PM
He would SAY "really? Ok", but ultimately it would never happen. I want it way more than he does.


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Posted: 2/19/2013 9:23:52 PM
He would burst out laughing.


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